Saturday, December 22, 2012

Psychological Trauma

One focus of my professional work is PTSD. Below is a graphic that explains this diagnosis. (scroll to the page bottom to view the graphic enlarged)

Hopefully the 2013 DSM-V will have a diagnosis for developmental trauma disorder as many people exposed to a traumatic childhood carry similar stress, anxiety, and symptoms that are interwoven with their developmental process from childhood to adulthood.
 Here is a sample of the diagnosis that the APA is developing. I would like to see it applied to adult clients with a traumatic background as well as to children:


A new diagnosis for childhood trauma?
http://www.apa.org/monitor/mar07/diagnosis.aspx
http://thumbnails.visually.netdna-cdn.com/what-is-ptsd_50290c2a45889.jpg
            What is PTSD?
           

                
           
       

Monday, September 17, 2012

quotes Marilyn likes


"The resistance to the unpleasant situation is the root of suffering."— Ram Dass

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Welcoming Molly

Our MOLLY, age 5 (formerly known as Kiah) 

              Adopting and Picking up Molly


Molly in Mamaroneck, NY


                        I found this adorable Labradoodle
                      on Petfinder on Friday night, May 4th, 2012



                         Affectionate Molly 
and me

                                                                                                   
        More of Molly  - age 6             


Friday, March 30, 2012

Henley

HENLEY 
was rescued by members of 
The New England
Old English Sheepdog Rescue. 
His story will touch your heart.
 

GRAFFITI
And this was our dear Chelsea whom we adopted from NEOESR in 1997:
"Chelsea" with our two sons soon after we adopted her
1992- 2007

Our first Old English Sheepdog "Broodgie" with Josh
1983 - 1997

Friday, February 17, 2012

The Breaking of the Shell...




“There is no birth of consciousness 
without pain” 
- Carl Jung


 

From Kahlil Gibran’s, The Prophet:

“On Pain” ~

 Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding.
~
Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.
~
And could you keep your heart in wonder at the daily miracles of your life, your pain would not seem less wondrous than your joy;
~
And you would accept the seasons of your heart, even as you have always accepted the seasons that pass over your fields.

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"Ring the bells that still can ring. Forget your perfect offering.
There is a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in."
- Leonard Cohen




..¸¸.•*¸.•´*¸¸.•´*• ¸¸.• ..¸¸.




Witnessing this young woman 

in spiritual crisis, 
I'm remembering my own: 
the confusion of becoming, 
realizing my inner compass,
and learning to trust it -
trust it enough 
to put my life on it...



Austria - 1974




 PRUNING

That October
I said Goodbye
To twenty-seven,
Father
And false friends
Who fell away like brittle husks
Around my newborn essence;
I welcomed back
My childhood –
Painful and pure.

There is only one
True way to be:
It can be lonely,
But also free
Of the clatter and crowding
And jarring of my peace
That comes from
Fleeing loneliness
At any price.

I have met myself,
Opened to the
fear and pain;
And I am whole.

Marilyn Brine
December 16, 1973


  .•-:¦:-•´

                
My early years of independence, in the late 1960's, I used to listen to this...  it was LIFETIMES ago


Some Thoughts for Benson Green on his 27th Birthday
~an excerpt~
By Rod McKuen

having just gone through the year myself
I know that twenty-seven can be hard.
But there are Sunday breakfasts
and April fields
and blue on blue
and green growing things
to change all that.

I know that spring is hard because you wait
for summer
and fall is hardest of them all-
because you must not be alone
when winter comes.

I know
that love is worth the time it takes to find.
Think of that
when all the world seems made of walk-up rooms
and hands in empty pockets...



  .•-:¦:-•´

"We did not change as we grew older. 
We became more clearly ourselves." 
- Lynn Hall



Friday, February 10, 2012